Give Us Your Excuses!

Give Us Your Excuses!

Let’s do some hard talking here!

If you are not where you always wanted to be – or if you don’t even know where that is – then it’s time to take a deep breath and have a serious look at yourself.

What will you see in the mirror?

Over the years working in businesses, in different teams and as a coach, I’ve heard so many dumb excuses why things are not possible that I could write a book about it. Not just one but a whole library. You think I am exaggerating? I don’t!

It’s amazing what we, as human beings, can come up with to justify anything, good and bad. And mostly bad.

It’s hard to admit when we are lazy, when we hurt others or don’t do what we decided to do earlier. It has all to do with not looking so bad in front of the mirror or in front of others. It’s about not being vulnerable, being safe, trusted and valued. We have this thing in our head that a person who is not perfect cannot be trusted and is not liked.

If that is you, how is this thinking working out for you?

Putting your life in place

It all has to do with what I call your zero-line or comfort zone. This is the place where you are right now. It’s the life you created for yourself, your habits, your friends, your work and your fun. If anyone comes along and challenges your zero-line, you will defend it vehemently and come up with all sorts of reasons why this is okay or why you are where you are. Most likely you are not happy. You have some good moments, but overall it just is as it is.

It’s a bit like moving into a new apartment. You might not like it much to begin – and start to find the things you’re uncomfortable with But over time you make it yours and you become okay with it. If anyone asks you why you are not moving to another apartment if you don’t like it so much, you will come up with many reasons why you can’t.

Maybe it’s money, the area, the friends nearby, the work and so on. Whatever it is, all of these excuses allow you to stay where you are: your zero-line or comfort zone.

No excuses for change

Sometimes bad things happen. You might lose your job, split up with your partner or become ill and you are forced to make changes. The bigger the change, the harder it feels. If you have to move out of your lovely house into a one-bedroom apartment, its going to be hard. This is because its so far out of your comfort zone.

It will take a while, but at one point you adjust and your zero-line moves down to the place you are right then. Your life changes and you will create new excuses why things are as they are.

If I would take away all of your excuses, what would you do?

What would you do if you couldn’t justify being unhappy, not having real friends, not having any money?

If you had no reason for any of this, you would have no choice to hold back on being happy. You would have real friends and would have money. I know you would.

The one thing holding you back is your stupid excuses for living a life you don’t really want to live.

If you want this to change, stop finding excuses, just give them all to me.

Write to me with all the excuses you can find saying why you are where you are – and why that stops you from moving on. That’s it. Just give them to me.

As soon as you do that, you will have no more reason for not having an amazing life, friends, relationships and money. Or whatever else you always wanted but never dared to get.

Go to our Social Media groups and give us your excuses. We promise not to reuse them. You can also just contact us directly if you wish.

But give us your excuses and start living the life worth living!



If you like this post, why don’t you subscribe to our newsletter on this page?
--------------------------
LISTEN TO TIPS ON-THE-GO:
iTunes: itpc://www.entrepreneur-academy.eu/category/podcast/feed/
Android: http://subscribeonandroid.com/www.entrepreneur-academy.eu/category/podcast/feed/
Feed: https://www.entrepreneur-academy.eu/category/podcast/feed/
Email: http://subscribebyemail.com/www.entrepreneur-academy.eu/category/podcast/feed/
-------------------------
SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL to watch and learn how to start-up the successful way
-------------------------
SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER


Leave a Reply

Close Menu